RITUAL ENGAGED.

Many rite we can found in Malaysia, for example engaged and it have the stages. First, the man’s family must go to the women house to tell their son ambition to get married with their daughter. Besides that, they also bring the ring and the passing with them. Next, they discuss between both of families to choose the suitable day to their son and daughter to get married. This is challenging to all the family to get the best decision. After they got and agree with the result, they will change all the passing from man’s family to women’s family. Finally, his mother case the ring to the women finger. In this ritual, the women who want engaged, were a special clothes like ‘Baju kurung’, ‘Kebaya’, ‘Songket’ so on to make her look beautiful elegant, but the man who want engaged not join the ritual. All this ritual, people participate in a group for example group from the man and the women.